Read a story on Facebook and I found it exactly fits my current situation bery bery muchie!
牛耕田回来，躺在栏里，疲惫不堪地喘着粗气，狗跑过来看它。
“唉，老朋友，我实在太累了。”牛诉着苦，“明儿个我真想歇一天。”
狗告别后，在墙角遇到了猫。狗说：“伙计，我刚才去看了牛，这位大哥实在太累了，它说它想歇一天。也难怪，主人给它的活儿太多太重了。”
猫转身对羊说:“牛抱怨主人给它的活儿太多太重，它想歇一天，明天不干活儿了。”
羊对鸡说：“牛不想给主人干活儿了，它抱怨它的活儿太多太重。唉，也不知道别的主人对他的牛是不是好一点儿。”
鸡对猪说:“牛不准备给主人干活儿了，它想去别的主人家看看。也真是，主人对牛一点儿也不心疼，让它干那么多又重又脏的活儿，还用鞭子粗暴地抽打它。”
晚饭前，主妇给猪喂食，猪向前一步，说：“主妇，我向你反映一件事。牛的思想最近很有问题，你得好好教育它。它不愿再给主人干活儿了，它嫌主人给它的活儿太重太多太脏太累了。它还说它要离开主人，到别的主人那里去。“
得到猪的报告，晚饭桌上，主妇对主人说，“牛想背叛你，它想换一个主人。背叛是不可饶恕的，你准备怎么处置它?”
“对待背叛者，杀无赦!”主人咬牙切齿地说道。
可怜，一头勤劳而实在的牛，就这样被传言“杀”死了。
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Well, my jaw dropped when I got to know that they pointed their fingers at me and accused me of standing someone up.
wth is that?! It's the funniest joke I've ever heard in the universe lo!
Did you ever hear the words coming out from my mouth? Have I ever made such a promise?
Then why you accuse falsely of me?
Why you put words in my mouth and accuse of something I didn't do?
Frankly, I'm hurting on the inside. The feeling of being accused is remorseful. It's not a very nice feeling of being misunderstood.
The great irony is that, the only thing more frustrating and irritating than slanderers is those foolish enough to listen to them HA-HA-HA!
We should listen to both side of the stories before we can conclude and accuse the person, rather then only listening to a single-side story.
It's unfair if you just trust a single side story. Sometimes you might have bias against the accused one or the so called innocent fella perhaps.
I know people's words carry weight.
But seriously sometimes I just simply hate explaining myself to restore my image and repuation blah blah blah.
You know what? People who understands you doesn't need you explanation; for those who don't, well you can go ahead and do whatever you like, cause I don't even give a single shit about it.
My conscience is clear and I know I did nothing wrong.
Stay calm, stay quiet and let the proof take down the accusation yeah.
总之 牛牛的故事告诉我们
不要轻易相信隔耳的传言 除非你当面证实 否则你会做出错误的判断 总之就是要谨言慎行啦
还有 莫跟旁人抱怨 免得怎么死的都不懂
